Have you thought about “hotwife/stag” relationship? Is your husband interested in sex with anyone else? Perhaps not? Perhaps he just likes to see you satisfied. From your piece, I’m unclear about his feelings about it. I’m with you on the “Everest libido” and so my man and I have worked out a special 1/2 open relationship where I get to play and he gets to stay committed. We’re both very happy like that. Not for everyone, but have you discussed whether it turns him on to know that you’re banging other guys?