Hi Beth, Thank you for your story! It was so heartfelt and honest. I recently had an experience somewhat similar to this. I’m sure HH will write about it soon. But, in the meantime, maybe you and your hubby could read some of our books together to get him more familiar with the idea of a “hotwife” and “stag” hubby? A lot of couples say the books have helped them to see the upside of this relationship dynamic.