I'm SO glad you got it and tried it out. I will tell you, I have so many sex toys, but you're right, this one has replaced them all. I have the original and the vibrating ball head can bend when pressed up hard against my clit, which is good. Also, though it's not intended for internal use, if you are excited and wet enough, you can get it inside you if you really need something to bear down on. It does make a lot of noise and I have resorted to excuses like, "I turned on the fan for white noise," or "HH was trimming his beard" when I've used it at a friend's house. Of course, that doesn't explain my screams and the wet sheets. Enjoy it!!!!! Oh, and don't worry, it won't desensitize your clit, no matter how much you use it. I hope you continue your love affair with it.