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[Recently Emma Austin posted a column about finding lots of JOI (Jerk Off Instructional porn for guys, but almost none for women. It reminded me of this story H.H. wrote about me from our first book. I hope you enjoy.]
One of Lo’s college girlfriends was off doing a semester abroad. Lo and her friend, Michelle, were casual acquaintances at school, but because Michelle was in a part of the world that Lo longed to visit, they kept up communication on Facebook and e-mail. Being so far away and in a very foreign environment, Michelle was having great difficulty forging new friendships and, more importantly, finding intimate partners. One day, while chatting on-line, Michelle happened to mention her frustration. With a little encouragement from Lo, Michelle opened up about her inability to get laid and her pent-up sexual energies. Lo asked her, rather blatantly, “Why don’t you just jill it?” Michelle was a bit embarrassed and did not know how to respond, but she admitted to Lo that she doesn’t do that because she feels too self-conscious and, furthermore, she hasn’t been able to bring herself to orgasm in that way — ever. Lo gave her a few instructions involving a long shower, moisturizing lotion, incense, candles, and a mirror. Lo encouraged her to explore her body and to imagine to herself how much money men would pay just to see what she was doing to herself.