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Recently, a new phrase has been popping up in various articles on sex, relationships, and women: The Orgasm Gap. Sometimes it’s referred to as “The Gender Orgasm Gap.” It is the result of various studies’ data showing that women in heterosexual relationships have far fewer orgasms than their male partners. This gap disappears in gay relationships.
There’s plenty of literature out there for you to do your own reading into the matter, but what I would like to discuss here is the orgasm gap that exists between Lo and me. In our relationship there is undoubtedly an orgasm gap, but it is the inverse of the one referred to above.
I’ve conducted my own non-scientific study. One October a few years back (I deemed it “O-month,” for “Orgasm Month”) I did my best to count the number of orgasms achieved by Lola (either during coitus or on her own) and the number achieved by me, your faithful author. The results were 70+ for Lo (not exactly sure of the actual number because I was relying on her reportage of her solo sessions and often she lost count), to my 18. That’s approximately a 4:1 orgasm gap in favor of the female.
Now, in our relationship there are many “understandings.” I am not allowed to jack it…