To the two previous responses to Madelaine’s article — you are the problem. As an attractive woman who happens to live on a planet with people of the opposite sex, there is NOTHING that I am doing that allows men to behave this way. And if they act like that, yes, I can choose not to spend time with them and I often do. Just because I’m sexy and express my sexuality, that does NOT give anyone permission to touch me without consent. Understand?