Yeah, this is bullshit. Not only this, but until recently, media and society tried to tell us that “a proper woman” “protects her sex” (as you put it in your piece). Only sluts want sex more than men. Well, welcome to the club. Thankfully, this distorted and moralistic (I think it’s immoral) view of women is being changed slowly by such shows as Fleabag and others that portray women with a healthy sex drive. (Many of those shows are still problematic, but I won’t go into that right now.) You (and your bf) might want to read up on how my man, HH, and I have found a happy compromise to our different levels of libido. You can find it all right here: mysexlifewithlola.com